Judgemental, Opinionated, or Having a Opionion?

I often get such remarks from people who hardly know me: "You're so opinionated." or "Wow, you're judgmental."

My first reaction is to recoil from such words. And the next is to dismiss the people as 'opinionated'. How could someone bring forth such comments, based on a single meeting, minimal interaction, and not even knowing anything about the person of whom he has just passed 'judgment'?

Empathy & Apathy. How we learn that the hard way.

Maybe the state of the world is such. We can't change it.

It's just another walk in the park for some people...


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The Compact Oxford English Dictionary States:

Judgmental: 1 of or concerning the use of judgement. 2 having an excessively critical point of view.

Opinionated: assertively dogmatic in one’s views.

Opinion: noun 1 a view or judgement not necessarily based on fact or knowledge. 2 the beliefs or views of people in general: public opinion. 3 an estimation of quality or worth. 4 a formal statement of advice by an expert or professional.

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